Day #417 - Couples That Play Together

Stay Together.

Goals of the Day:

• Plan the day with Dearest
• Achieved
• Household chores
• Achieved
• Organize the stuff that I just brought over from my parents' place
• Achieved
• Go through the wedding photos with Dearest and upload them on Facebook
• Achieved (Yeah~!)

It's quite a productive day, with packing and organizing stuff occupying most of my time.

Today's Small Wins:

• Planned the day and realigned the time schedule between me and Dearest
• Finished packing up all the stuff that I brought over (still have a pile of it back at my parents' place)
• Finally reviewed through the wedding photos with Dearest and shared them with our family and friends

Today's Small Losses:

• Time wasted when I took the wrong bus home from buying lunch because I was distracted looking at 9GAG on my phone
• Didn't wake up early this morning
• Didn't meditate

Things I'm Grateful for Today:

• Being able to plan the weekends with Dearest so as to be productive =)
• Dearest's willingness to go through with the plan

Day #416 - Planning + Action

It looks like these days I'm just dishing out quotes and not living by them.
Today I shall change this!

Goals of the Day:

• Complete the two work tasks required for Monday's meeting
• Achieved 50%
• Make a brief plan and objectives for the weekend and discuss with Dearest
• Not Achieved

Dearest and I enjoyed me time this evening~

I guessed the planning can be done tml morning!

Today's Small Wins:

• Managed to focus on work towards the end of the evening
• Did personal administration before I sleep instead of lazing around

Today's Small Losses:

• Didn't complete the work tasks
• Haven't make plans for the weekend yet

Things I'm Grateful for Today:

• Still able to move fast on the badminton court
• A colleague who is always willing to drive me to badminton

Day #415 - Discipline; Doing What I Don't Want to Do

Discipline is doing something, even when I don't want to do it.
And this is what I need recently.

Goals of the Day:

• Exercise for at least 30 min
• Not Achieved
• Meditate
• Achieved
• Review Choice 3
• Not Achieved

Somehow my body is not feeling well.

Today's Small Wins:

• Meditated for 10 min
• Did some financial accounting

Today's Small Losses:

• Didn't exercise (didn't feel too good)
• Slacked in front of TV instead of doing personal work
• Slept late

Things I'm Grateful of Today:

• AED refresher course

Day #414 - Renewed Strength

Felt slightly better today after much rest.
And also feeling more motivated in life.

Goals of the Day:

• More focus at work; Less distraction
• Not Achieved
• Quality time with parents
• Achieved

Went back to my parents' place for dinner with Dearest.

Although it was rather quiet, but overall it was still nice going back to see them.

Today's Small Wins:

• Interaction with parents

Today's Small Losses:

• Slept late 
• Didn't meditate

Haven't been sleeping on time for a period of time.

And my meditation routine is haphazard.

Need to do better than this.

Things I'm Grateful for Today:

• Mum's interaction with Dearest
• Being able to eat home-cooked food with my parents and Dearest

Day #413 - Overcoming The Feeling of Being Down

Still feeling rather down today.
Perhaps I need more rest.

Goals of the Day:

• Rest on time
• Achieved

Today's Small Wins:

• Managed to try the VR game, BeatSaber
• Deconflict schedule with Dearest

Today's Small Losses:

• Not focused at work
• Didn't meditate

Things I'm Grateful for Today:

• Dearest's comfort

Day #412 - Fresh Start

Going for a fresh start; starting from my review of life priorities.

Goals of the Day:

• Review of 3rd Choice in The 5 Choices
• Not Achieved
• Focused at work
• Achieved

Was feeling quite low in energy and down after work.

So didn't really do anything when I got home.

Today's Small Wins:

• Was able to do some R programming

Today's Small Losses:

• Slept late
• Didn't meditate

Things I'm Grateful for Today:

• Dearest's willingness to put aside her discomfort for me

Day #411 - Problems or Possibilities

It's a matter of perspectives; Problems or Possibilities.

Goals of the Day:

• Have a good breakfast with Mum
• Achieved
• Quality time with Dearest
• Achieved
• Go through wedding photos with Dearest
• Achieved

Today's Small Wins:

• A close and intimate conversation with Mum, and me telling her that I will support her
• Watched a movie with Dearest (The Incredibles 2 - something she was looking forward to)
• Had deep conversations with Dearest over several matters
• Had a good chat with Hao; even though we got stuck in the hawker center because of the rain
• Meditated for 10 min
• Being respectful of Dearest's values

Today's Small Losses:

• Didn't manage to have time to go through the wedding photos
• Didn't exercise
• Slept late

Things I'm Grateful for Today:

• Dearest's support
• A good conversation with a friend that was unplanned